Seven steps to marital Ecstacy

By Joe Beam

Introduction

After years of constantly studying research about marriage and being blessed with almost unbelievable success in improving the marriages of thousands, we realized that seven simple steps can transform even the worst of marriages into a marvelous marriage. These seven steps create a pathway for reaching the highest levels of intimacy and fulfillment.

At whatever point a couple enters the process, they absolutely need all the remaining steps. For example, a couple beginning at Step One will also need Steps Two through Seven. In like manner, a couple starting at Step Three will also need Steps Four through Seven.

Having a high level desire or motivation isn’t the key to marital success: The key is completing each step in order. Do the right things and the right emotions follow!

Let’s take a brief look at the seven steps.

• Step One — Diminish Any Intense Negative Emotions

• Step Two — Create Communication That Exhibits Respect

• Step Three — Modify Each Spouse’s Beliefs or Perspectives to Positive Views

• Step Four — Identify and Stop All Negative Behaviors Affecting the Relationship

• Step Five — Identify and Implement Every Essential Positive Behavior

• Step Six — Develop Shared Spirituality in the Relationship

• Step Seven — Passionately Pursue Passion